Welcome back to Member Monday. It’s a pleasure to feature member Beth Maxey. She writes about appreciating her amazing body. Beth is busy healing from a recent foot surgery, so please join me in reading her lovely piece and wishing her a speedy recovery.
This Amazing Body
by Beth Maxey
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about my body, and contemplating each part, especially this morning as I lay on the massage table.
Like most women, and many men, too, I suppose, I’m not a huge fan of what’s there. It’s long and lumpy and somewhat squishy. There is dimpled or wrinkly skin where it was once smooth. An assortment of scars and marks decorate limbs, torso, even face.
A couple of toes are bent and a little stiff; my thumb joints are thick and frozen. My gait can be a little stiff, depending on achy hip joints or lower back; my left elbow doesn’t flex all the way out; my shoulders creak and my neck can grind.
But it works.
My legs take me where I need to go, and my balance is pretty good as long as I do regular yoga. My feet need extra cushioning in my shoes these days but they are straight and still nice looking. I can stand up straight and tall: my back is no more curved than it’s ever been, and I consciously ‘telescope’ my spine and pull my shoulders back when I stand. I can bend over to pull weeds or plant seedlings or pick something up off the floor and get back up again without help.
My arms and shoulders let me carry shopping bags or groceries or pots or piles of fresh laundry or kitties or babies, and I can hoist a sling full of firewood into the house if I need to. My hands slice and chop and shred food for our meals, and I can still easily type with all 10 fingers, and knit or sew or thread a needle.. They may be a little lumpy in places, but they don’t hurt.
My eyes see well, actually better now that I’ve had cataract surgery than I saw all of my adult life, and they let me read and watch movies and ocean waves and plays and see my honey’s big brown eyes right before I turn out the light at night. My ears bring me music and the chirrups of the birds that flock to our feeders and the soft mew of our kitties and the footfalls of the deer outside our window at night. They may not pick up every word sometimes, but that’s usually no great loss.
My mouth may have gold and silver and porcelain in abundance, but my teeth can chew anything I want to eat, and my throat easily swallows the big vitamin supplements that we take every morning. My voice still carries to the back of most rooms and my words are clear.
My hair is bright and thick and healthy, silvery gray though it may be. My mind works well enough for me to understand the books and magazines I read, the conversations I have, and even to memorize lines. It may work a bit overtime in remembering trivia from many years ago and replaying scenes from my past, but I can usually corral those wanderings and come back to what is here and now. I see things from a perspective that generally cuts through to the heart of the situation or to the essence of a person, and I am not afraid to say what I see and think, although I am careful to choose my words.
I know that our physical appearance can make a lasting first impression, especially upon those who are younger. But I am aware also that outward appearance does not necessarily reflect who we are and what we can do, and as I age, I have begun to look more deeply before I venture an opinion about someone.
I have an amazing body. I am so grateful for all that it does, for all it allows me to be and do. And now, more than ever before in my life, I am consciously, intentionally working to keep it healthy and strong for as long as I can, and to say ‘thank you’ every day for all that I do have. If yours works, if it does what you need it to do, you should, too.
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